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2nd Annual Northern Indiana Shop Hop
Details coming soon!
Thurs. Sept. 30 - Sat. Oct. 2
Pillowcase Project
MAKE A PILLOWCASE, MAKE A DIFFERENCE!
American Patchwork & Quilting’s1 Million Pillowcase Challenge. Calling all quilters, sewers, and crafters! American Patchwork & Quilting is challenging you to join our efforts to make a difference in our community. Every pillowcase can provide comfort for a cancer patient, hope for a foster child, encouragement for a battered woman, or beauty for a nursing home resident. Jeanette’s Fabric Boutique has joined in the challenge! Download your free patterns at www.allpeoplequilt.com, or if you don’t have internet access, we can provide one for you. Come to Jeanette’s and receive a 25% discount on fabric
($ 5.99 and up) purchased for this project. When your pillowcase is completed, return it to us and we will see to the distribution. Please Note: this will be a year-long project.
Dawn just returned from a visit to family in Florida, which included her 14 year old great-nephew who is being treated for Ewing Sarcoma. While there, she delivered 25 pillowcases from the project to the Arnold Palmer Children's Hospital. Pictured below is Austin and one of the young patients also being treated there. Austin and his mom passed out pillowcases to several other patients as well, and they were warmly received!
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CREATING BLANKETS WITH LOVE
Again this year we are collecting blankets that will provide love, security, warmth, and comfort to those who are seriously ill, traumatized, or otherwise in need. We will be donating these blankets to local agencies such as Family Christian Development Center, RETA, CAPS, Pregnancy Help Services, Quilts of Honor, and our EMT's/Fire Department. We invite you to help us. The blankets you donate must be handmade entirely from new materials which are washable. You can make your blanket any size from one appropriate for an infant to one that could be used by an adult. The blanket may be quilted, knotted, crocheted, knitted, or made from a single layer of fleece finished with a handmade edge. We also need 42"x42" Flannel receiving blankets. Every time you donate a blanket, your name goes into our drawing for a free sewing machine. The deadline for this year's drawing was March 31, and our winner is Kristi Warmoth of Osceola. Congratulations Kristi! Our final count for this year was 365! Many thanks to all who participated. Remember, this is an ongoing project, to which you may donate at any time throughout the year.
Jeanettitorial
Where has the year gone?! Here we are, mid-July, and it's showing all the signs of a classic busy summer! There's ALOT going on including the Elkhart County 4-H Fair July 23- 31, our continued 30th of the month Celebration Sales, and so much more! I will be in the store very limited hours during the month of July, so if you need to see or talk to ME personally, it's best that you call ahead! Not only will I be busy will store responsibilities, but I am taking time to spend with my children and grandchildren.
Check back often for a more personal and updated "Jeanettitorial". Enjoy your summer!!!
Jeanette
NEWS FROM “QUILTS OF HONOR-the TRAVIS PROJECT” -
To date, 55 quilts have been delivered to families who have lost a loved one and to the men who served alongside them. Currently, we are working on building a “stash” of quilts to be ready for the next need that arises. Dawn has recently learned that 7th Group from Ft. Bragg has lost another fourteen men in the past several months. She is planning another trip some time mid Summer and would like to be able to take quilts with her. Thank-you again to all who have so generously helped with this project of support, honor, and love! More help is needed. . . won’t you consider how you might have a part?
Thank-you to those who have donated quilts and fabric so far! We also have had 12 quilt tops donated that need to be quilted. If you are interested in supplying the batting, backing, or quilting for those tops, please contact us ASAP! I also will need them bound when complete.
For more information, contact Dawn Bechtel at the store, on her cell, 574-849-7930, or by visiting her Blog,www.quiltsofhonor.blogspot.com. Thank-you for your support, remember. . . Freedom isn’t Free!!
Kip's Korner
(because we've had numerous comments about the significance of this section, we are leaving it on here for a while longer)
A funeral often serves as a tearful farewell to a person no longer living, and , as such, is attended out of necessity or a sense of obligation. Kip’s funeral was different. This doesn’t mean no tears were shed; on the contrary, but those tears, along with words spoken, the family’s strength, and friends’ support were filled with and surrounded by love and awe—tributes themselves to the man, his God, and his life. Following are the tributes shared by his sons.
SIMPLE STORIES
presented by Derry Prenkert, youth pastor at Nappanee Missionary Church, married to Janelle,
father of Katylynn
On Friday, February 6, meeting with Carter was the last thing I did before leaving the office. Carter, a senior at NorthWood, had to interview someone and report on that interview for his speech class.
2 hours later, I was driving down State Road 19 toward Elkhart General Hospital, and all I could think about was that interview. Carter’s second to last question was ringing in my ears. That question… “Who has impacted your life the most so far?”
These past few days have been marked by many simple stories where Kip Prenkert was the main character. I have remembered many myself. Some specific, and some general. 7 simple stories I share about my dad with you.
1. Laying in bed while dad read to me. There was nothing like nodding off to sleep with visions of Frodo and the Fellowship fighting the orcs, being whisked away to the magical land of Narnia, or Jerry Todd and his gang fighting off imaginary pirates. Fast forward to last April, and we will hold dear the memory of dad sitting at the love seat in the Ludington cottage, reading Dr. Seuss’s “The Foot Book” to his granddaughter Katylynn just 3 days before her adoption was finalized.
2. Opening Presents at Christmas. Prenkert Christmases never really had presents from Santa. There weren’t presents from mom or dad either. Instead, a strange array of individuals from literature, cinema, comic strips, and the even the political world were our “gift-givers”. One time I think I received a gift from a mythical creature I’d never even heard of (fortunately there was an illustration of the creature on the card to provide clarity). Of course, dad was the creative genius behind this beloved Christmas tradition.
3. At a mall in North Carolina. I can’t remember how old I was, it was definitely early grade school. The Mall fountain had a ledge around it. That ledge seemed to be a sensible place to attempt a few hand stands. On my fourth or fifth attempt that I nailed a perfect one. I held it for what felt like a very impressive amount of time. As I prepared to dismount, I seem to remember hearing mom say, “Derry, be careful or you might faaaaaaa….” My handstand had become a somersault right into a mall fountain. I came up, soaking wet, crying with embarrassment. My dad was right there. I looked at him with tears in my eyes and screamed, “Dad, what do I do?” He looked at me, gave that signature smirk, and said, “Quick, grab some change!” After a look of confusion from me, he scooped me out of the fountain, and bought me a very nice new towel at the nearest available store.
4. Just before stepping on the blocks at the swim meet. He was always there, right beside mom. I’m not sure they ever missed a meet. I would look up in the stands just before putting my goggles in place, and the book would be lying in his lap (but I noticed he had a finger inserted to the page he was on in order to pick back up). I really think dad hated swimming. But in those moments he seemed to love it.
5. The oddities that were dad. Some that come to mind are scratching his back with a fork, wearing incredibly mismatched outfits or placing pencils in orifices on his face they weren’t meant to be. In High School, I was embarrassed by those things. As years passed, I grew to admire the fact that my dad was comfortable in his skin, and fairly impervious to what others cared when it came to “social norms.”
6. My first Sunday Morning Preaching at Nappanee Missionary Church. May, 2006. That morning I would teach from God’s word to nearly 3,000 people. As I got up for the 10:45 service, I looked out and saw dad, sitting by mom. Again, that morning he had a book in his hands. It was his Bible, it was open, and the teacher was now ready to have me teach him.?
7. Dad AND mom. These stories are really incomplete with only our hero. The two were together. It wasn’t Kip. It was Kip and Jeanette. An unstoppable force of love, support, and friendship.
I’m sure all who knew dad could share their own “Kip memory” or “Kip story” as well. It would likely make several of us nod in agreement, smile, or life. They are simple stories… but like any truly great story, there’s much deeper meaning.
So Carter had asked me in the interview, “Who has impacted your life the most so far?”
My first answer was not my dad.
My first answer was Jesus. Jesus. My dad modeled and taught me so much about Him.
Yet, Immediately following that response I told Carter that no other person has or will ever impact me more than my dad. I told Carter this impact was by default… he’s my dad. I think any son who is able to spend multiple years around a father would have a hard time coming up with a different answer
Here’s the thing about dad’s impact on me, I’m struggling to find where that impact was to my detriment.
I share with you simple stories of my dad, but there is much deeper meaning, because each of these simple stories have played a role in how I’m seeking to live.
1. Because he read to me, I will share THAT I love my daughter, by sharing WHAT I love with my daughter.
2. Because of Christmas, I will continue to practice excessive creativity.
3. Because of that fountain, Look for a laugh, but ultimately seek to shine the heart of our Heavenly Father.
4. Because of those swim meets, I will seek to stop everything else when it’s time to love and support my family.
5. Because of my dad's oddities, I will seek to walk the path that God has called ME to walk without shame.
6. Because of that Sunday at NMC, I will never cease to be a learner.
7. Because of dad AND mom, I will Love and cherish the women I’ve been blessed to share my life with.
Thanks Carter, for allowing God to use you to PREPARE me for the current uncharted territory I find myself in. You reminded me I’ve been blessed to have an incredible earthly example of our Heavenly Father.
Galatians 5:22-23 – But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.
My dad batted a thousand.
Contentment (or Why My Dad Didn’t Care What You Thought of Him) presented by Jamie Prenkert, IU business law professor, married to Debbie,
father of Calvin and Grant
In the fall of my 8th grade year, my dad bought me a new winter jacket. I saw it in the mall and just had to have it. It was classically 80s in style, a hint of Members Only crossed with a little of Michael Jackson’s shoulder padded badness. And it was giant black and red gingham. I thought it was SO COOL.
I was tragically mistaken.
It didn’t take me long to realize that and I abandoned the jacket during that very same winter season.
I don’t remember how much that jacket cost, but I know it could not have been terribly expensive. You see, my mom was a master seamstress and she could not abide retail prices.
I vividly remember childhood shopping trips: “Those jeans cost !?! With a yard of denim and a few feet of yellow thread, I could make them for less than 5.” Or “The sewing machine at my store can put a horse on the front of your shirt for free.” (Take that Ralph Lauren.) Or “That full suit of chain mail armor costs how much?!?! If we go scavenging through the dump for surplus metal, I borrow a soldering iron, and put my heaviest duty needles on the sewing machine . . . .” Well, you get the picture. It was a bit like browsing Best Buy with MacGyver. As a result, we were frugal about clothes purchases.
Dad was nothing, if not a leader by example. So, you can imagine my mortification when, as a ninth grader attending a cold late-October NorthWood football game, I saw him saunter up the bleacher stairs in that very same red and black gingham coat.
We never spoke about why he was wearing that coat. But, I didn’t have to ask. His old winter coat had grown ragged and thin. Dad wasn’t about to let the investment in a perfectly serviceable coat go to waste. So, he proceeded to wear it for the next eight or so winters.
Sadly, at the time, all I could muster was embarrassment about how clueless I thought he was. Over the next several years, as I matured and viewed his actions more generously, my embarrassment gave way to bemusement. “Isn’t dad quirky?” I’d think and chuckle.
In my adulthood, though, I realized that this episode was not so much evidence of lovable quirkiness as an indicator of something deeper and more profound about the way my dad lived his life.
Kip Prenkert was no dummy. I’ve no doubt that he realized the jacket was a serious fashion faux pas. He just didn’t care, because comfort was the primary – if not sole – requirement he had in the clothes he wore.
For the most part, he couldn’t have cared less what you thought about him. At least not about silly material things, like the clothes he wore, the cars he drove, or that, for a few years in the mid-1990s, my mom cut his hair with that Flowbee contraption that connected to the end of their vacuum cleaner.
Don’t misunderstand me; I’m not saying he didn’t care for people. He cared a great deal. In fact, his capacity for caring could surprise you sometimes. Just ask my wife. In the fall of her junior year she was a student in his NorthWood World Lit class. At the time, Deb and I had dated for a couple of years. On November 16, 1988, he stopped class a bit early to present her with one of his infamous homemade yellow cakes with chocolate frosting and a hearty rendition of “Happy Birthday to You.”
Yes, Dad cared FOR people. He just didn’t care whether people sat in silent or not so silent judgment of his choices. He was much too busy being utterly content in all the things of real value: a job at which he excelled; a home where he found solace, solitude, and peace; sons (and eventually daughters-in-law and grandchildren) in whom he was proud; and a wife he dearly and unconditionally loved.
Yesterday at the viewing hundreds of people filed through a line that passed uninterrupted for a full six hours, paying their respects to my dad. How is it that a man who cared so little about impressing people left such a profound impression on so many? Over the course of the past few days, one recurring comment a number of you have shared with me or my brothers or my mom is that Dad possessed a certain “silent strength” or “quiet confidence.” That despite his seemingly meek nature, he had a steadfastness of spirit -- a strength of character and integrity -- that was both unique and inspiring. I believe that grew out of his sense of contentment and the corresponding confidence that comes along with a life well and happily lived.
Because of that contentment, he lived “in the moment.” So he could find true joy in the snap of the net as a perfectly arched free throw swished through it. He could honestly say that there was no place in the world he would rather be than 64431 County Road 1. He could sit on the floor with one of his grandchildren, literally for hours, playing simple make believe games or telling them stories about adventures in far off lands, and never once give the slightest hint he was bored or impatient.
I don’t think my dad died with any major regrets. Sure, he might be able to come up with a time or two that he should have passed the ball down the lane instead of pulling up for the jumper in a church league game. I imagine he’d have preferred to be around when the Cubs finally win the World Series. If you could ask him, he’d probably also say he wishes he’d have clicked his seat belt across him last Friday as he drove out of downtown Wakarusa. Or that he’d have stopped just a bit longer at the intersection of County Roads 1 and 38 and looked just a little more carefully both ways before proceeding. And I’m sure he’d love to take away the pain and loss that we all feel – especially from my mom. But, I can tell you one thing with certainty: he wouldn’t give a second thought to the better part of a decade of wearing a hideous black and red gingham winter coat.
While dad lived exactly the life he wanted to live, he’d assuredly have loved to live more of it. Nevertheless, I hope he can serve as an example to you, as he has for me, of focusing on those things that are important to living contentedly, ignoring those things that are superfluous to a truly happy existence, and being wise enough to know the difference between the two.
The Walk You Remember
presented by Robby Prenkert, English professor at Bethel College, married to Jeanie,
father of Sydney
He has showed you, O man, what is good.
And what does the LORD require of you?
To act justly and to love mercy
and to walk humbly with your God.
Micah 6:8
My dad had a distinctive walk. I suspect that some of you noticed this.
His heels scarcely touched the ground when he strolled from the garden to the back door, down a wooded trail in Ludington, from his car in the parking lot to his spot in the bleachers (omnipresent book in one hand) to watch me play some game.
At times it looked to me as if he were treading delicately on the earth, trying to avoid leaving any imprint in the soil, tip-toeing gently but purposefully to his destination.
His tip-toe walk became more pronounced at times. In the driveway shooting hoops, after he'd made twenty or so in a row, realizing he was "on," he would get an extra spring.
Once when I was very young, we were in the midst of witnessing some dramatic comeback in one of his church league fastpitch softball games at the prairie campgrounds. He was cheering a big hit that drove in a couple runs, extending the rally. He walked past me as I sat, taking it all in on the bench.
On the bench, an awestruck boy who only ever wanted to be like his hero. On the bench but allowed to be a part of the team, witnessing his father nearly levitate, heels five inches off the ground, his face aglow with a joy that can only be known by grown men at play.
My dad had a distinctive walk, and I have a theory about it.
I can see my dad, left hand on left knee, gloved right hand on right knee, waiting and watching from his spot in Right field. He had the uncanny ability to know exactly where a flyball hit his direction was going land a split moment before the batter made contact. They call that getting a jump on the ball.
I can still see him pivot and run, dark hair blown off his forehead, eyes glued to that ball—running. Running on his tip toes. Gliding, it seemed, on the top of the grass.
Many years later I played outfield, too—and I realized something that my dad showed me rather than told me, for that was more his style. I learned that if you run on your toes and not your heels, you land, with each stride, much more delicately. Land on your heels and your head jars and the ball you're chasing starts to bounce, making it considerably more difficult to catch. But run on your toes and you'll see the ball fly smoothly toward its home in the deep pocket of your glove as you make that final graceful reach over your shoulder to grab the inning ending out.
When he was a boy, he spent hours just tossing a ball up in the air and chasing after it to make a catch. He and his closest friend, Mike, spent countless hours hitting the ball to one another, chasing down flies. At an early age he learned to run on the balls of his feet, and that must have carried over into his walk, and all the days of his life my dad tread lightly on God's earth and this kept his eyes clearly focused.
My dad had a distinctive walk, but I don't know if you ever thought about why.
At sixty five, he still had that spring in his step. I suspect he kept it after knee surgery, back surgery, prostate surgery, heart surgery, multiple kidney stones, and who knows what other aches and pains that inevitably come with age—I suspect he kept it not simply because he had learned how to chase down a ball the way they teach major league outfielders to do it, but because he loved being alive.
He kept that soft bouncing walk because he knew my mom and one way his passionate and voluntary love for her was involuntarily, habitually evidenced was by a spring in each step. You walk with a woman like her for more than forty years and you, too, would retain the spring.
My dad had a distinctive walk, and I want for you to know and remember this.
My dad was an outrageously joyful person, even if he did not express it the same way others might have. But you could see it if you watched his walk. With each step his head bobbed heavenward. Because he enjoyed life, the abundant life offered those who know the ONE who is the WAY, the TRUTH, and the LIFE.
When I was a boy all I wanted to do was to shoot a basketball like my dad. I wanted to hit a ball the way he did; I wanted to chase after and catch a ball and do it with his grace and style. I still do.
I do not think I walk quite like him, but I have learned a great deal about walking rightly by watching his "walk." All of us could learn something from the joyfully contented way he walked humbly with his God.
We are sad today and we mourn our loss. But we are also comforted, knowing that now dad runs on those toes without ever growing weary, and walks without ever growing faint.
I know one thing. My dad, like his LORD, would like nothing better than for each of us to "walk on" faithfully, humbly, joyfully, until we, too, are called home.
presented by Mario Freitas, exchange student & "adopted" son.
married to Sarah, father of Andre and Dominic
17 years ago, I had the privilege to be a part of the Prenkert household. I was blessed with the opportunity to be a part of Kip’s life and that of his family. For 2 years, I lived in their home as a foreign exchange student. Today, I would like to share with you why this man, this quiet, humble, and kind man meant so much to me.
When I arrived in the U.S, I could not read, nor write and barely spoke any English. We were not even sure that I could attend school. If you don’t read, don’t write and don’t speak, how can you attend school? How can you graduate from High school? Well, you pray. And then the Lord blesses you with a 24/7 English teacher.
Learning English was very difficult, but I had great support. In fact, I was always encouraged and given constructive criticism but never put down. If I was not sure how to properly construct a sentence, Kip always had the time to teach me. Thanks to his help and the help of his family, I not only graduated from high school with honors, but I went on to graduate from College.
With his kindness and gentleness, Kip taught me much more than English. He was a man of few words. But his actions were loud and clear.
-So many times I caught him praying in his room or studying his Bible.
-So many times I saw him helping Jeanette around the house and in her
business.
-So many times I saw him give a word of encouragement to his children and those around him.
Kip Prenkert taught by example. He helped teach his sons and me the importance of placing God first, loving and supporting your spouse and family, and being a good friend to those around you. He was someone who opened his home to a stranger. Who showed kindness and love to a stranger and then made the stranger part of his family. Even if this Brazilian had a hard time following a game of basketball.
I would like to share with you this passage from Colossians 3:12 for it reminds me so much of Kip. For many of these qualities were found in his life.
“Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.”
Kip Prenkert will be missed very much. His Kindness, sense of humor, gentleness, and friendship will not be easily replaced. However, his influence and example will live on in the lives of those he touched.
Thank you Jeanette and the entire Prenkert family for the opportunity to be part of your lives.